A little drama before the bigger drama
Proxi has joked about the server becoming a tulpa of its own. Kanade asks her if this tulpa likes headpats and then textually headpats a server to test it. After a few hours, Proxi insulted us flattening my tulpas to Tupperbox profiles.
Luna replied to Proxi saying that she is a person we regret getting to known the most and says that her comment was hurting us.
Proxi acts quite patronizing towards me. She is frustrated with me “not showing the true Mon” and acting like “a few supporting characters from a cheap anime”. She basically insults my tulpas saying they are cheap anime characters defined by one quirk. Proxi admits that she wanted to get me angry after that and Ranger expresses her disappointment at us for not taking it into DMs.
Luna admits that we might sometimes use another tulpa as a coping mechanism but says that it doesn’t mean other things Proxi have just said weren’t insulting to us. She also tells Proxi that making us feel stabbed by her doesn’t help us if she really cares about us.
After that people are complaining on the drama. Az also told us not to tag Proxi with headpat-related stuff. I pinged Proxi with asking if she can open her DMs to us… She didn’t reply. I decided to not contact her in public about that seeing people’s reactions on the drama.
Here I vent a little about it on next day, after being asked by another user how I feel.
Original screenshots. It’s ironic that a drama caused by Proxi insulting me has been used as an evidence of me abusing her.
First screenshot is mentioned as example of Kanade targeting Proxi (again) with headpats. Here she replies to Proxi’s message but the headpat is not related to Proxi, so it doesn’t violate the strictest boundaries drawn by Proxi.
The two last ones are included in section about us supposedly gaslighting Proxi. Again, if there is gaslighting here, it’s her gaslighting us. She is frustrated with me not behaving like she’d like me to to and trying to make me feel like I am a problem. She is trying to manipulate our feelings to control us.
The third one is also included in section about people asking us to stop… Az reminded us (told us first time) not to ping Proxi with headpat-related stuff, which we complied to, as usual.