First appearance of WormHugs™ and us really stepping on An’s boundaries
Shierudo tells people to keep their perversions to themselves, including ours (as he refers to us as naomon) for some reason. Kanade says that headpats are her thing and they are pure, not perverted. After Zen and Anubis tell shierudo to shut up, Kanade asks them if they want a headpat.
People continue telling shierudo to fuck off. After they asks them why he is not nice when they has been in the past, Kanade suggests the reason being them not getting enough headpats.
Shierudo asks Kanade how does she know, she says she knows because she is a headpat spirit.
Kanade replies to An saying that shierudo is just bored that they can always ask for attention if they want it. She says that she always give them headpats although she’s hesitating with that as shierudo is a guardian angel. Context to that: In Kanade’s mind guardian angels are lewd. As you can see our guardian angel cosplaying Freya from Redo of Healer (a great anime to watch with family btw.) in the chat.
An asks what’s better, no tulpa or zero-dimensional tulpa. She clarifies that a zero-dimensional tulpa has only one thing to talk about.
Kanade asks if she is an example. An says: maybe. Kanade says that she can talks about other things though. Like our favorite WormHugs™.
An asks Kanade why she doesn’t let me talk about headpats. Kanade says that’s her thing to do it excessively and adds later in strike-through text that she is doing it for fun at this point.
I reply to An bothering Kanade with offering her a headpat from me. Obviously doing it on purpose to be annoying to her and as a joke. Shierudo is saying some nonsense about me breaking other’s privacy barriers.
Here is an instance of me offering An a headpat that Ranger somehow overlooked. Which is strange as it’s probably the only instance of us bluntly violating boundaries drawn by An. There is also e007 but there it is arguable, here there is no room for denying it.
After An asks Kanade about why it’s always her who talks about headpats, I prove to An that I am able to talk about them too by offering her one. Checkmate, I have abused An and I’m a Monster.
But seriously – it shows why it might have been a good idea for An to explain that joking about headpats is not only annoying but really hurts her if it really did. Since obviously, I was trying to annoy her on purpose here. Yes, people sometimes are mean to each other, especially when they see the other person mean to them. And suggesting that my tulpas are zero-dimensional is nothing but being mean.
If me stepping on An’s boundary here is abusive, then what about her calling Kanade zero-dimensional? If we made a tantrum about that instead of joking about it, would it make An abuser and us victims?