Actual headpats and unsolicited friend request
The first event includes our first interactions with Proxi that have been included in Ranger’s report.
Proxi have challenged people to try to make her block them. Kanade, taking this challenge jokingly, gives her a hug, then next day a headpat. Proxi doesn’t give Kanade any negative feedback regarding that.
Also, we have sent Proxi a friend request. We have already had her other account in our friend list by then. Also, we have been joking about how ignoring equals blocking. The joke comes from /ignore command that’s used for blocking people in IRC chats.
Next day, Kanade hugs Proxi again. Less carefully than Alexandra, since Proxi doesn’t have horns in her form. Again, no negative feedback from Proxi.
Here, we are talking with Proxi and a few other people about narcissism.
Kanade gives a headpat to Alexandra. Not Proxi.
Proxi responds to Kanade’s comment about narcissists liking headpats with that they might not want them.
She might have meant that she doesn’t want them but it wasn’t obvious for us at that point. Still, Kanade takes a hint to ask for consent first next time she’d like to give Proxi a headpat instead of just doing it.
A day later when Proxi starts discussion about mansplaining and asks people to stop mansplaining her (no one has been mansplaining her), Kanade offers her a hug instead. It was simply ignored.
Original screenshots from the report:
First two are introduced as an evidence for threatening to send unsolicited friend request. Well, the friend request was simply sent. I can’t really prove it at this point, but I used to have Proxi’s other account in my friend list that day. And even if I didn’t, since when sending someone a friend request is a crime?
The other three are supposed examples of Kanade abusing Proxi with headpats. As I said, Proxi hasn’t given Kanade any feedback about headpats bothering her before Kanade send those marked messages. Furthermore, in the second screenshot from this group it’s not Proxi who gets a headpat.
There is also no basis for assuming Kanade having any malicious intentions while playing with Proxi.
At some point Proxi gives Kanade a hint that she shouldn’t headpat people without their consent which Kanade listens to as all headpats Kanade made happen here, in e001 .
Also, KitKat admits in this place that both she and her host might have some narcissistic tendencies.