Pleeb’s authority and Anubis’s harassment

Pleeb says that An has right to request people to not be touchy with her without providing any explanation on that. It’s implying that Kanade has been touchy with An. As Pleeb seems to remember, Kanade hasn’t directed any hugs at An since September of previous year. Pleeb insists on Kanade’s “how much is it in worm hugs?” message to be cut and dry harassment. He is mixing hugs being directed at An with talking about any hugs with her at all. Or simply believes An’s made up narration about Kanade abusing her for months without checking if it’s true.

Here Pleeb is agreeing with moderation being absent in a server too much.

Here I reply to Pleeb that An indeed requested us to not direct headpats at her and from our point of view, we didn’t. I say once again that asking “how much is 500 btc in worm hugs” is not offering worm hugs. So we didn’t violate An’s boundaries. We also ask that if we committed cut and dry harassment, we didn’t receive any official condemnation yet. Well, just after I asked, we did and got muted for some times by getting 2 retroactive strikes.

Meanwhile Zen is asking Pleeb where exactly An specified not to have hugs talked to them at all. And says that even if she did, such a boundary isn’t very fair.

On the next day I say that Kanade tried hard to not overstep boundaries drawn by An. I’m still confused at this point about what actual boundaries were to be honest. Keep in mind that back then I didn’t bother to retroactively check messages in Discord from the past. I say that in my point of view, An seems to have expected me to not talk to about headpats at all and have assumed such a covert boundary. I admit that it was possible for me to deduce this kind of expectation knowing she has DID and seeing her reaction to mentioning headpats in general.

I reply to Zen that to me someone wishing to not interact with my tulpa is ultimately acceptable and I would oblige.

Anubis complains on me not accepting full responsibility for what happened.

I reply that I don’t deny that I’ve made some mistakes and said that I didn’t haggle about strikes received from Pleeb. I said that I have been wrong about not figuring An getting hurt by my actions. I obviously take back what I have said here today. I’ve been manipulated into feeling guilty and taking responsibility by An playing victim. Despite being manipulated I said that I have right to defend myself and Kanade though and I refuse to be scapegoat for all problems An had.

Anubis implies that we didn’t respect An’s basic wishes while interacting with her and points out that An can’t block Kanade while she’s using tupperbox. He also says that interacting with someone is a privilege they grant, not a right I hold.

I reply to him that I agree that expecting people to share their traumatic experience is wrong. I specify what I expected from An to says. In my point of view back then, if she told me about being triggered by mentioning headpats to her, we’d stop. Well, even if she told me what she really expected (and today I think she really did) – not to mention headpats to her or even Kanade not talking to her. She’s never said any of those statements though, contrary to what Anubis said later.

And Anubis says that she must have said it at some point because everyone else got the memo. And even if she didn’t, repeated instances of her getting angry should’ve been very clear.

From my point of view Anubis has been heavily influenced by An’s attempts to rewrite history, I have no further comments on his behavior here. People acting like Anubis here is not a surprising consequence of being repeatedly told lies about how Kanade abused An for months in se013 , e007 and finally in e011 .

Anubis keeps mocking me and as I said, I have no further comments on his behavior. I’d like only to point out that he is talking to me all the time.

I finally ask Anubis to stop his harassment and say I’m going to report him next time he attacks me personally.

Zen also scolds Anubis for spewing emotional nonsense.

Zen tells me that in my shoes, he wouldn’t be so kind and just drop a person who dares to ask his headmate to not talk to them. Today I agree with him, I’d like to point out that An never asked for it, it was a hypothetical situation.

Anubis replied to Zen that he is dense and toxic just like me and everybody else agrees with him and mentions me getting double strike again. I tell him that number of people supporting him doesn’t matter and says that I told him to stop attacking me personally, pointing out that he just called me dense and toxic.

Pleeb appears to silence me, not an Anubis.

To sum it up:

Pleeb is accepting An’s narration without a checking if it’s true. He implies that we’ve been touchy towards An, which isn’t true after e001 .
He says that An doesn’t need to justify that she doesn’t want people to not direct hugs to them and An has been requesting this for several months. He implies me still directing hugs at her.
In his eyes “how much is 500 btc in worm hugs” question is cut and dry harassment. He buys Alexandra’s narration.
He also used his authority to silence me when I called out Anubis on harassment.

Pleeb is clearly favoring An, accepting her narration (proxied by Alexandra) without question and rejecting my countless objections in se005 . He also abuses his power as a ~~mod~~ ~~admin~~ server owner to threaten me when I get harassed and dare to call it out.