First signs of Proxi’s malicious intentions
Kanade is happily exchanging hugs and headpats with other people. A wild proxi (aka Proxi) appears to mention that genuine headpats are sent via dms and Kanade’s public headpats are showoffs. Kanade says that Proxi is jealous about her headpats.
Proxi says that Kanade’s headpats have no value for her and Kanade is forcing herself on everyone.
Nao calls out Proxi for projecting on Kanade with “it’s about you”, asking her if she really thinks that or is just being mean. Before Proxi has a chance to reply, Kanade mentions that “no roleplay” rule in tulpa.info serve is problematic due to lack of precision.
Cerys (another tulpa in Alexandra’s system) appears. Kanade asks if she wants a headpat.
Proxi says her projection again and tells Kanade that people know that they can get a headpat if they ask Kanade, she doesn’t need to press them on that.
Kanade replies to Proxi that people can feel intimidated about asking for headpats themselves. Also, headpats are about giving as much as receiving and she loves showing affection to people she cares about.
Proxi replies that people can be intimidated to say “no” too and not everyone is good with setting boundaries. She also mentioned that Kanade didn’t take “no” from her for a long time.
Kanade says that for a long time it was just teasing from her.
Proxi says that it confirms that “it’s always about Kanade” and not about what others want or not. She says that even if Kanade knew someone doesn’t want a headpat, she still gives it to them.
Kanade tells Proxi that she teases her because she likes her.
Proxi says again that Kanade doesn’t care about what other people feel. Kanade says that even if she is selfish, it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t care about other people.
Proxi says that if Kanade cared about other people, she’d take “no” for an answer and that Kanade still keeps pressing people.
Nao accuses Proxi of projection again. Kanade says that she cares about Proxi and feels sad about Proxi feeling that way about her.
Nat (who was tulpa.info mod back then) asked Kanade if it’s true that Proxi said “no” no to her. Kanade agreed and told her she doesn’t headpat Proxi anymore.
Cerys says that Kanade doesn’t understand Proxi and that she’s one of the people who feel pressured by Kanade too. She repeats Proxi’s projection and says that if Kanade liked Proxi, she should consider her feelings as well. She also denies that Proxi has made a projection.
Nao said that she couldn’t help but see Proxi being hostile to Kanade. She states that Kanade likes being in center of attention but so does proxi and it’s nothing wrong with either of them.
Nao also says that we and Proxi have problems understanding each other with Proxi. And Kanade still feels hurt even if we “know” (as coerced by Cerys) that Proxi didn’t have malicious intentions.
It’s Proxi who’s been mean to Kanade first by calling her headpats “showoffs”. Kanade than teases her with being jealous.
Proxi accuses Kanade of forcing herself on everyone, despite the fact that other people in the conversation so far are happy with Kanade’s headpats. And this drags out for a bit.
Proxi also insists that Kanade wasn’t taking “no” for an answer for a long time. It’s been almost a month after last time Proxi has received a headpat from Kanade in e001 btw and it has happened before Proxi has clearly drawn her boundaries for the first time in se003 . Yet Proxi insists that Kanade still gives headpats to people even if she knows they don’t want it.
From our point of view, Proxi could be already trying to sabotage us and make us look bad in other people’s eyes. Proxi also could have been projecting her own lack of empathy on Kanade.
Cerys, just like Alexandra, is consistently supporting Proxi. She claims being one of people who feel pressured by Kanade. I’m sure it’s first time someone in her system felt like that and so far they’ve been happy with getting Kanade’s headpats too. She also manages to convince us that there wasn’t malice behind Proxi’s actions here.